Caregivers


The Best Adaptive Clothing for Seniors and How It Supports Independence

Choosing the best adaptive clothing for seniors helps preserve comfort, confidence, and independence.

You might not think twice about what it takes to get yourself dressed each morning, but if you’re helping someone with arthritis, limited mobility, or other health challenges, you know it’s often not that simple. The best adaptive clothing for seniors is imperative to make life easier and restore a sense of independence, dignity, and control.



When Love Feels Heavy: How to Cope With Spousal Caregiver Resentment

Spousal caregiver resentment can leave you riddled with guilt, but you can overcome it with the right support.

You meant every word of those vows: through sickness and health, for better or worse. But no one warned you how exhausting it might feel to live those promises day in and day out as a caregiver. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or even resentful while caring for your spouse, take a deep breath: you’re not failing, you’re just human.



THANK YOU Kraig!

Posted on May 16th, by Mark Winter in OUR Caregivers. No Comments

The Hired Hands Homecare Team raises our glasses to Kraig, as our most recent Caregiver of the Month!

We had the pleasure of surprising Kraig while he was on shift with his client, Stanley.  When we presented the award, Stanley smiled and said that he wanted to “look up in admiration at Kraig holding his award” for the picture for our office Wall of Fame. It was a moment filled with warmth, appreciation, and lots of smiles. Kraig and Stanley can often be found sharing a quiet afternoon working on crossword puzzles or a competitive game of scrabble.  Either  usually includes enjoying a bowl of ice cream!  While Stanley remains undefeated in their friendly games, Kraig more than makes up for it with his compassionate heart, knowledge of caregiving, and unwavering dedication. Kraig is one of our highly skilled caregivers and also … Read More »



Grace is a Senior Care ACE!

Posted on May 1st, by Mark Winter in OUR Caregivers. No Comments

Please join us in congratulating Grace Q as our most recent Caregiver of the Month!

We recently had the pleasure of surprising Grace on shift with her client, Darlene.  Both were pleasantly surprised, and excited to celebrate.  Grace is highly skilled Homecare Professional.  She always has a positive, friendly attitude.  She has a gentle approach and is able to connect with her clients instantly.  Grace has received many compliments for the fantastic work she provides to our clients families, and we couldn’t agree more.

Grace, Thank You for ALL that you do!  It is an absolute pleasure to have you on our Team!
~HHH



Healthy Conversations With Your Parent Start Here

Learn how to have healthy conversations with your parent to restore peace to your relationship.

When you dedicate so much time and energy to caring for a senior parent, it’s natural for other relationships to take a back seat. After all, there are only 24 hours in a day, and you can only spread yourself so thin. This can lead to additional stress, hurt feelings, and misunderstandings.

The key to overcoming this hurdle is communication. It means having healthy conversations with your parent that may be uncomfortable but allow the opportunity to air grievances, share feelings, and ultimately reinforce the love you have for each other.

Kicking Off a Courageous Conversation

First, know that a planned, formal meeting isn’t necessary for a conversation to be effective. It can be a quick chat while waiting for the coffee to … Read More »



How Can You Prioritize Privacy as a Caregiver?

Make sure to prioritize privacy as a caregiver to protect your health and well-being.

Think back to your teenage years. Remember how important it was to find a safe place to be by yourself, to shut out the world, turn up the music, and write your most secret thoughts in your diary?

The need for privacy that began then may become overshadowed when providing care for someone else. Yet it’s still vitally important to be able to separate yourself both physically and mentally from your caregiving role to take time for yourself and prioritize privacy as a caregiver.

How Can a Caregiver Make Privacy a Priority?

Frankly, it isn’t always easy. You may feel as though you need to always have at least one ear and eye open to the needs of the person in your care. There … Read More »



What You Need to Know When Mom Is Discharged From the Hospital

When Mom is discharged from the hospital, keep an eye out for a condition known as post-hospital syndrome.

The moment Mom is discharged from the hospital, you exhale, believing the toughest part is finally behind you. But instead of bouncing back, she seems drained, anxious, or even weaker than before. She’s struggling with simple tasks, isn’t sleeping well, and feels overwhelmed.

This wasn’t how you pictured recovery. Instead of a turning point, it feels like she’s slipping backward.

What’s going on?

The Unexpected Challenge of Post-Hospital Recovery

Leaving the hospital doesn’t always mean the body is ready to heal. Many older adults experience post-hospital syndrome—a state of extreme stress and vulnerability that can slow recovery, lead to new health complications, and even increase the risk of readmission.

Stress plays a bigger role than you might realize.

How Stress … Read More »



Struggling to Let Someone Lighten Your Caregiving Load? This Might Be Why.

Learn why it’s so important to allow someone to help lighten your caregiving load, and why you may be feeling so resistant to the idea.

The moment Mom is discharged from the hospital, you exhale, believing the toughest part is finally behind you. But instead of bouncing back, she seems drained, anxious, or even weaker than before. She’s struggling with simple tasks, isn’t sleeping well, and feels overwhelmed.

This wasn’t how you pictured recovery. Instead of a turning point, it feels like she’s slipping backward.

What’s going on?

The Unexpected Challenge of Post-Hospital Recovery

Leaving the hospital doesn’t always mean the body is ready to heal. Many older adults experience post-hospital syndrome—a state of extreme stress and vulnerability that can slow recovery, lead to new health complications, and even increase the risk of readmission.

Stress plays a bigger … Read More »



Oscar Rocks!

Posted on April 7th, by Mark Winter in OUR Caregivers. No Comments

Please join us in congratulating Oscar as our most recent Caregiver of the Month!

We recently had the pleasure of surprising Oscar while he was on shift with his client, Richard. Richard cheerfully joined in on the celebration and let me know that Oscar deserves every ounce of acknowledgement, and we couldn’t agree more! Oscar sends a big thank you to everyone in the office and stated that he has never received recognition like this before, which made the surprise all that much sweeter!

Oscar has worked with the Hired Hands team since 2022. He is highly skilled, exceptionally patient, kind, gentle, respectful, and has great attention to detail.  Most of the time when we visit, you can find Oscar in the kitchen preparing amazing meals for our clients. Oscar is attentive and always makes sure that our clients are well taken care … Read More »



Read This Before Welcoming a New Caregiver Into the Home!

Welcoming a new caregiver into the home is a much smoother process with these tips.

The big day is here—your dad’s first day with his new caregiver! If your family is feeling a mix of relief, uncertainty, and even a little anxiety, you’re not alone. Welcoming a new caregiver into the home is a big adjustment, not just for the person receiving care, but for the entire family. The good news is that with some preparation, you can help set the stage for a positive, comfortable transition.






Contact Us to Learn More!

Want to find out more about our senior care in California and how it can improve safety, comfort, and independence at home? Contact us online or call (866) 940-4343 to request a free in-home consultation to learn more about our customized care solutions in Novato, Pleasanton, Santa Rosa, Napa, Sonoma, and the surrounding areas.


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